I need advice .. I'm 6 months pregnant (1st) and am unsure if I should leave my boyfriend and move back home?

In Oct. 2006 we (both 31yrs) rented his parents empty 3 bdrm home. In June 2007 his brother (24) broke up with his girlfriend of 8yrs and needed to save money. My boyfriend said no but I said okay, it was only going to be short term and he's family.





He has helped clean the house once. when he does his laundry, he leaves the fabric sheet on the floor for me to pick up. When he cooks, he leaves his dishes for me to clean. He is on our computer constantly. He broke our DVD player. Now he doesn't say hello or goodbye or us when coming or going, even when were right there. In Feb 2008 when we came home from the doctors, my boyfriend asked his brother to help with the snow; he started cursing and slaming the kitchen cabinets.





I wanted him out in Feb but it was winter, now my boyfriend is saying his brother doesn't have any money %26amp; wants to stay and he doesn't have the heart to ask him to leave by the end of June.





HELP ... I don't want to live like this but I love my boyfriend

I need advice .. I'm 6 months pregnant (1st) and am unsure if I should leave my boyfriend and move back home?
Well if he's working then it's ok like if he has a job. Otherwise, he's a spoiled brat, and you need to lie down the law on how you want the house to be run. Tell him that if he doesn't help out your leaving him for someone who will.
Reply:sounds like the brother needs to grow up. Tell you boyfriend that you have a baby on the way - you do not need to be taking care of his brother. Shape up or ship out. Period
Reply:You and your boyfriend should have a talk about the situation with his brother. He's probably feeling strain from the situation too. You've got to realize that's his brother, not a stranger. Its not that hes purposely trying to let the brother run all over you guys. -He's just in a tight situation. Have you involved his parents, since its their place you are renting from? It might take some kind of intervention to make the situation easier. I am sorry but I dont think the situation deems for you to walk out on your boyfriend. If you do that, you won't be helping yourself or the baby. and it will show the brother that he can get his way, or that you give up easily.
Reply:Go home. If he really loves you as you love him. he should come to get you back. If he doesn't show up on your doorstep within a couple of days, kick him to the curb. In other words, he doesn't deserve a lady like you. You would be better off, having your baby and starting your life anew. If he does show up, make sure that the brother is gone. Sounds like he is a jerk and with the baby coming, you don't need another child to take care of. Your boyfriend should have the guts to stand up to his brother and kick him out. Who knows what kind of stuff he is dragging into the house that could affect your whole future, your babies future and your boyfriends.


Why haven't you and boyfriend married? Sounds like he's getting all the goodies, without any of the responsibilities. Why buy the cow, when the milk is free? Just something to think about!
Reply:I ONCE HAD MY BRO LIVING WITH US,IT NEVER,NEVER WORS,YOUR MATE HAS 2 PUT HIS FOOT DOWN AND TELL HIM THE RULES IF HE'S GOING 2 LIVE WITH YOU AND IF HE CAN'T FOLLOW THE RULES THERE'S THE DOOR,CAUSE YOUR MATE SHOULD ONLY WORRY ABOUT HIS FAMILY YOU AND THE BABY.NOBODY WANTS 2 KICK THEIR BRO OUT,BUT YOU DON'T WANT HIM 2 WALK ALL OVER YOU.
Reply:Your boyfriend is the first one who should tell his brother that it's time for him to leave. He can give him a two week notice. You need your privacy back. He's a lazy slob and contributes nothing to help out in the house. If your boyfriend refuses to talk to him, I wouldn't blame you if you moved back home. You aren't married and can leave whenever you wish.
Reply:talk to him, see if you both can meet half way, follor your heart, if you cant stand it and hes not willing to change i say do what makes you happy.